Sarah, would you mind listening to this new meditation and giving me feedback particularly in comparison to the kinds of things you are used to hearing from me? Thank you so much! And below is a past birthday message for you that I left here. =)

Happy birthday, Sarah.

Happy birthday

Sarah,

Wishing you a really good day full of nourishing things for body, mind, and heart.

It was my pleasure to create this meditation. And I have realized that because I used readings that would be under copyright, I will need to make some changes before uploading this in a more public way. So this version will be only for you, and then a modified version will be public.

Below the recording is a section from David Whyte’s book, Consolations. His work often hits deep to me. I often need to take a moment to let it sink in, and even then it sometimes makes my brain tired for a few moments. I enjoyed typing this portion out for you as it gave me a chance to think about it, too. It would be copyrighted, so that is why I am keeping this page private.

I really hope that you get to do whatever you wish in celebration of your birthday.

With warmest wishes,

Heidi

Destiny

always has a possessor, as in my destiny or your destiny or her destiny, it gives a sense of something we cannot avoid or something waiting for us, it is a word of storybook or mythic dimension. Destiny is hardly used in everyday conversation; it is a word that invites belief or disbelief: we reject the ordering of events by some fated, unseen or we agree that there seems to be a greater hand than our own, working at the edges of even the most average life. But speaking of destiny not only grants us a sense of our own possibilities but gives us an intimation of our flaws, we sense, along with Shakespeare that what is unresolved or unspoken in human character might overwhelm the better parts of ourselves.

When we choose between these two poles, of mythic triumph or fated failure, we may miss the everyday conversational essence of destiny: our future influenced by the very way we hold the conversation of life itself; never mind any actions we might take or neglect to take. Two people, simply by looking at the future in radically different ways have completely different futures awaiting them no matter their immediate course of action. Even the same course of action, coming from a different way of shaping the conversation will result in a different outcome. We are shaped by our shaping of the world and are shaped again in turn. The way we face the world alters the face we see in the world.

Strangely, every person always lives out their destiny no matter what they do, according to the way they shape the conversation, but that destiny may be lived out on the level of consummation or complete frustration, through experiencing a homecoming or a distant sense of exile, or more likely some gradation along the spectrum that lies between. It is still our destiny, our life, but the sense of satisfaction involved and the possibility of fulfilling its promise may depend upon a brave participation, a willingness to hazard ourselves in a difficult world, a certain form of wild generosity with our gifts; a familiarity with our own depth, our own discovered, surprising breadth and always, a long practiced and robust vulnerability equal to what any future may offer.

by David Whyte

From Consolations